Monster Coach

Monsters

Meet fifteen friendly worry-monster characters and hear each one’s story.

For the grown-up helpingExternalising unhelpful thoughts as characters (CBT) — the child learns to spot a thinking trap and treat it as a familiar visitor, not the truth about them.

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My thoughts

First, tap the monster that feels familiar right now — then write a thought, or use its example. You can change your mind any time.

Tap the monster that feels familiar — its usual thought is on the card. Tap again to take it off.

Your monster buddy
How much is this thought bothering me right now?
5 — a medium amount

Watch the monster grow when the thought bothers you more, and shrink when it bothers you less.

↑Type a thought that’s on your mind — or tap a monster and select a thought.

    Nothing here yet — your kept thoughts will appear here.

    My feelings

    Spin the big wheel to explore feelings that might be around — or pick straight from the list. There are no wrong answers.

    Give it a spin!

    Six feeling families, thirty-six feelings — how many do you know?

    What else could be here? Tap any that feel true right now — more than one is fine.

    Chosen feelings attach to the thought you’re exploring.

    Body

    Map where a feeling shows up in the body and give the sensation words.

    For the grown-up helpingInteroception and affect-labelling — noticing where a feeling sits and naming it helps the feeling settle.

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    Actions & Impulses

    Notice the fight / flight / freeze pull and find a calm, ready response.

    For the grown-up helpingThe space between urge and action (ACT/CBT) — naming the impulse and choosing a values-led next step.

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    Choose your path

    Work a monster’s coaching questions towards a kinder next step.

    For the grown-up helpingSocratic coaching (CBT) — the child reworks a thinking trap into a more balanced thought in their own words.

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    Worry box

    Post a worry away for a while and see how much smaller it feels later.

    For the grown-up helpingExternalising and deferring worry (CBT ‘worry time’) — parking a worry and revisiting it often shrinks how big it feels.

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    The Volcano

    Feed the volcano your angry thoughts and watch what happens when anger only gets fed… then help it cool down.

    A friendly volcano
    Feed it an angry thought:

    Calm corner

    Easy things to try right now. Tick them off as you go.

    Look around you and find…

    How I see things

    Gently explore beliefs about yourself, other people and the world.

    For the grown-up helpingAttachment-informed belief work — surfacing internal working models of self, others and the world, with warmth.

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    Core beliefs

    Build a bridge from an old, harsh belief to a kinder, believable one.

    For the grown-up helpingCognitive restructuring (CBT) — loosening a fixed self-belief and rehearsing a warmer, credible alternative at the child’s pace.

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    My energy bank

    Weigh what fills you up against what drains you.

    For the grown-up helpingBehavioural activation and self-monitoring — linking daily activities to felt energy, and noticing when rest isn’t refilling.

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    Journal

    Look back across kept thoughts, feelings and worries to notice patterns.

    For the grown-up helpingA reflective record (not a diagnosis) — looking across entries together to notice what helps.

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